but a lake or a pool is a completely different matter. or even a creek for that matter.
if you really have to jump into one of these and later haunt them, well this just shows your i-don't-care-attitude towards all. why rob the others of the simpler joys of life?
why bring them the loss of a friend, when it could have been another friend to talk to?
much said, hope wine and water doesn't try mixing again!